We live in a society where we’re never satisfied. Even if you’re finally in a place you’ve dreamt about for years, there’s always that yearning for more- for something better. It’s time for us to give ourselves some appreciation. Be grateful for the moment you are in right now and as exciting the next step is, don’t be so eager to get there without giving yourself a pat on the back first.
Although brilliant for countless reasons, social media also provides millions with a stage for comparison. Influencers across platforms may bring out feelings of self-dissatisfaction. It may seem like there are so many people out there who have achieved what you hope to do – if not, more – at a younger age or in less time and more ease. In short, it seems someone is always doing better than you are. Keep in mind that because we are exposed to so many more people than ever before, seeing more of other peoples’ successes may simply be a case of proportionality. What you need to realise is that lives on social media are (for the most part) an illusion! We watch the glamorous highlights and assume this is the life of so many, but we don’t truly know what happens behind the scenes. Be proud of what you have achieved and grateful for all the reasons you have to be happy right now because you probably have so much that these people wish for.
Living in times where masses put celebrities and those alike on pedestals, it’s important to remember that we are all only human, we came out with nothing. That being said, where these people are now is a place you can be too – if you truly want it enough. Try turning something negative such as envy upside down and transform these feelings into hope and motivation. If you see people who have what you dream of in terms of career etc, remind yourself that all you have to do is go out and get it! Don’t use others for comparison or to fuel self-doubt, use their stories of triumph as inspiration to work for it too and get to where they are, if not better and further!
Live with optimism and although it may not always be simple, be a little kinder to yourself. Of course it’s good to push yourself, but recognise how far you’ve come before you start each new step in your journey. Society may encourage unhealthy comparisons, but I don’t. Resist the urges of getting wrapped up in distorted realities and virtual glamour – stay focused on making your life a living dream!
